In May of 2017 we broke up for the first time and he admitted to me that about a week before, his ex called him to vent to him about some family issues. This was the same ex that he hung out with, with the intent to have sex one day before we went on a date and on that same date he said he loved me. She was his first serious relationship. Honestly, that baffles me because I would never try to hook up with an ex I dated years ago. So on Facebook I saw a message with her asking for his number cause she didn’t have ita month before she called him, so my question to him was if she didn’t have your number, then how did she call you a month later. And I thought back to how I saw her number in his phone a few months before that. Keep in mind I lived in New York and he lived in Florida, so I don’t know if he deleted it or not when I asked him to. And I got mad because apparently he knew what message I was talking about when I brought it up to him. So he made a big deal about me being on social media, and would constantly ask me to delete it and try to convince me that I was the same as everyone else if I had social media. Eventually I gave in and deleted all of it, but come to find out he was still using it and still had his ex on social media which normally I wouldn t make a big deal about but he made a big deal about me having ex’s on mine and assumed I still had feelings for them.