Dear Veronica:

One more thing regarding what you (and I) value, to live life right- if a person does something that you can’t and shouldn’t forgive, don’t forgive-

-but don’t keep a person you didn’t forgive in hour life and then proceed to prosecute and persecute the person,  treating him/her like a criminal, guilty-until-proven-innocent, questioned and interrogated, pressured to admit this or that, his phone records and social media invaded, confronted, accused him, and so on.

Forgive and don’t mention the wrong doing again, or do not forgive, but do not prosecute and persecute, unless you are a courtroom prosecutor and then you prosecute according to the law and only in the courtroom.

anita