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I know it’s probably my fault that I allow her to force me to do those things, because when we first met we used to go to concerts, I thought it’s nice but the fact is I don’t really like concerts that much, after a while we were going to a concert almost every week, festivals, I spent a lot of money for the concerts (sometimes the same bands many times) which she likes, and I just went with her so that she wouldn’t go alone. I dont know if this is what I should do. There were movies she liked and we went for the same movie like 5 or 6 times and payed for it even if I didn’t like it. Where we almost never go to a movie I like, very rarely. Let alone more than one time. I know its probably my fault I allowed this. Maybe other people wouldn’t go to even one concert they don’t want to go. Would you?
But I’m afraid to speak my feelings so I what she wants to. It’s probably more my fault than her.