* Dear Eskimo: can you copy your above post and paste it into your own thread? Click on FORUMS above, scroll down to RELATIONSHIPS, click that, scroll down and paste your post into the empty box. I am looking forward to read and reply to you on your own thread.

Dear lisa:

Do you remember as a child trying to team up with your father, be in his corner against your mother, so to get his attention, his approval, his love… maybe getting some positive attention at times but also suffering painful rejections from him, that “we” union with him being rejected?

anita