Dear gj:

“I was doubting myself that I don’t know enough about life to decide the right thing for me”- you know more than your mother does, and more than you aunt, and more than most people where you live and many who live elsewhere.

We are individuals after all who need to live in a society. It is possible to be an individual and function well in a society, interact well with others so to  cooperate, help each other.

As a matter of fact, the more you have win-win interactions with others, and within a win-win relationship where the two  people help each other, the more you become an individual. It is within healthy, loving (win-win), non aggressive relationships with others that we become more and more the individuals that we are.

anita