Dear Cali Chica:

It is the same-old-same-old activation of the TDW neuropathways.

I was thinking about it for a moment, it is about viewing others as superior to you, superior to you-and-your-husband. Similar to your mother viewing other families in Disney World as superior to her-and-her-small family.

So when you glorify others, like the couple moving to Florida, you are sort of… worshipping them, worshipping their greatness, like an inferior worshipping a superior.

You value others in comparison to you and yours, just like your mother did. And your husband cannot get himself out of that inferior lock he is in, in comparison to others… and the others are always there.

That inferior position of viewing others… what do you think about it?

anita