Dear coconut:

What you shared in your recent post is that your father is harassing you and has been harassing you for a long time, purposefully trying to annoy you. Did I understand correctly, he is… having fun annoying you, causing you to get upset?

Examples:

1.  You watch TV and he tells you “do something else”, but not telling you what that something else is, intending to interrupt your relaxing viewing of TV.

2. You are on your phone and he tells you “take a pause” but doesn’t tell you what he wants you to do  after that pause.

3. You help him and your mother with chores, or you do other things during a day and he knows it, yet he tells you that you were on the phone that whole day. He knows it is not true but he wants to see you distressed. Did I understand correctly?

anita