Dear Rose:

“He was furious” that you were upset, “said he almost ended it with (you) right there and then.. threatened that before”- well, he is not a nice person, is he.

“He works closely with his ex on helping their son”- it is very likely that he and his ex created his son’s problems leading to his drug addiction. Reads like he didn’t change from the way he was years ago and is not a better father to his son now than he was before. I figure this because he is not a good man in the relationship with you, currently.

Again, it is a shame, a waste of time and effort. But waste is a big part of all of our lives. Better minimize it, better make a better use of the time and resources left.

I  think he has a lot of nerve expressing anger at you, he is selfish. Not a kind person.

anita