Dear Lindsey:

These means then, that in the future

-you will not have a second date with a man who is drunk when you show up  for your first date with him –that you will not continue to see a man who tells you that he is done raising kids (better ask a man how he feels about raising kids before you get involved with him romantically or physically)

-that you expect a man to be honest and straightforward with you in a relationship, and

-that he will be a considerate lover.

Right here is your preparation for a future healthy relationship with a man (#5).

anita