Dear LianeGrech:

“what do you think is really going on?”

1. You are pregnant, 26 weeks if I am correct.

2. You have this belief deep inside you that you are not worth much, that you are less worthy than other women, that you are inferior. This belief is causing you a lot of pain and it fuels your envy of Yvonne. It also fuels your distrust of Oliver’s love for you- you figure he must be worthless for loving someone as.. worthless as you. So you treat him accordingly, as if he was worthless too.

Do you think that I am correct?

Other questions:

– what is your current relationship with your father who used to verbally abuse you, calling you names and punishing you? How did he punish you?

and with your mother who didn’t stop your father from calling you names?

anita