Dear Cali Chica:

“What could be more important?”-

– for many people, what is more important than the person  or people loving them now is the person who didn’t love them before. The lack of love most needed before, the betrayal of love early on, is intensely painful and a very powerful motivator, motivating millions of adult children to make their aging parents love them while neglecting and mistreating their spouses and their own children!

Parents betray the love of their own young children while chasing their own parents, investing more and more in the quest of that absent love.

anita