Katie,

I don’t know what to tell you.  We are surrounded by media that tells us what is physically attractive or not.  I assume that you are still in your teens or early 20s.

All I can say is that if you keep focusing on what you are not then you are setting yourself up to be unhappy.

Aren’t there other things about you that you enjoy?  that you do well in?  Those are the areas where most of us can focus on and to feel “successful” or happy.

Good for you for putting effort into getting your life together.  Do that.

What sort of things are you doing to do that?

Mark