Dear Ranger:

You brought up a few issues:

1) Pornography, it being that you were shown your first pornographic images when you were 8. I wonder who showed you those images and how pornography affected you through the years of your childhood and on, and what part pornography had in your relationship with your wife over the years.

2) Cheating on your wife. I wonder if you cheated on her before (with another person, that is, outside of viewing pornography, which some women consider cheating) and how she dealt with it before.

3) Homosexuality- having cheating on your wife with a man. I wonder if you had past homosexual interactions with men while married to your wife, her reactions then and now, and how you see your future as far as heterosexual and homosexual inclinations and relationships.

Would you like to elaborate on any of these, or all?

anita