Hi Vaughn679,

This may be hard to hear, but are you ready?

As a woman in her forties who has a dear friend in his twenties, I can definitively say… She’s not thinking about you at all.

The forties are a trippy time when our parents suddenly need our care and when we may start to get our own health scares.

When the children are teenagers and our property taxes go up.

When our husbands get mid life crises and want to move to France.

You get the picture.

Also, to you two weeks are like two months. To her two weeks are like two days. As in “Where did the time go??”

What I would do is dial it WAY back. Call her on her birthday. Invite her this summer to a get together.

Relax,

Inky