Dear Omar:

This woman is a single mother. Her relationship with her child’s father ended two  years ago. Within the last two years she had a nine month relationship that ended when “the guy ran away”. You met her online “in a group that’s for marriage”.

You communicated online/ via texting for two weeks, had a lot  in common, talked some about a future together, “everything was going great”, and then she blocked you.

She posted once on her fb wall: “Always remember, someone’s effort is a reflection of their interest in you”.

I understand that you are upset that she blocked you, of course you are upset.

Why did she block you, you asked. My answer: she blocked you because she wanted to no longer communicate with you and it was easier for her to block you than to tell you about it.

Why did she want to no longer communicate with you-

Maybe the father of her child is back into her life, maybe he made some effort and she appreciated that effort enough to get back together with him. Maybe it is her recent boyfriend who ran away from her, maybe he returned and she appreciated his effort. Maybe it is another man that she communicated with online at the same time she communicated with you. And maybe it is some other reason.

Two weeks is a very short time to get to know a person, in person and online. You asked how to handle it. What do you mean by handling it, I mean, if she blocked you, you can’t contact her, correct? And if you could contact her, what will be your purpose?

anita