Hi Ana,

He came to see you to see if what you both felt while chatting “was real”. You viewed your time together as “amazing and we felt super connected”, but I think it’s possible that he didn’t (and still doesn’t) feel this same way.  The 3 reasons he gave you for why starting a relationship with you “would be way too difficult” may all be true but I think the most important reason and the one he did not share with you is that when he spent time with you he realized that the connection between the two of you is not exactly what he was hoping it would be. Sorry, but this is what I believe is happening based on what you’ve shared here.

Those three reasons he gave you were all valid reasons before he came to see you, weren’t they? If they were truly big enough reasons for why he doesn’t want to start a relationship with you, he wouldn’t have bothered to come see you at all. When a guy is in love, almost nothing can stop him from pursuing the person he loves. Give up on a relationship with this guy. Let him go. Stop chatting with him. Move on.

B