Dear sadman11:

Having re-read your posts in your other threads and our communication there, my answer to your question is: yes, you should let her go and leave her alone.

You’ve been an angry young man for a long time, angry since you were a child because, as you put it, “all I got was a dysfunctional family that neglected me”. You transferred your early life anger at your parents who neglected you-> to your now ex girlfriend (who should remain ex). In other words, you mistreated her. You tried to forgive her, stated at one time that you did, but you were not able to forgive her and you kept torturing her.

Of course you should let her go, for her sake. It will be the kind thing to do for her.

As far as you are concerned, will you tell me about your childhood experience, what happened there, how your parents betrayed your early trust in them?

anita