Dear Dan:

Your last question makes me think of Ted Bundy, the serial murderer, he was a volunteer operator at a suicide prevention hotline center, volunteered there together with Anne Rule, the most prolific True Crime writer in the U.S whose first book was about Ted Bundy.

In your previous thread and in this one you expressed that your son’s mother is a good mother to him. You made it clear that you are very satisfied with her mothering of your boy. For this reason alone, let go of that hate towards her, aim at letting go, stop holding on to it. I wish you attended quality psychotherapy for this purpose, unearthing the origin of that hate (which I believe is in your childhood, long ago, and I brought it up to you before), and resolve your hate toward your son’s mother.

anita