Diletta
My response to anybody comes with worries, I would say to them so what are you planning to do about it? He is trying to put his burden and worries on you. It is not for you to carry. You can also set your boundaries by telling him not to share that with you anymore and if you want to do something about it then he’s welcome to. You can tell him that you’re open to help him want to get a plan together. But if all he wants to do is worry about it rather than taking action and don’t come to me.
Mark
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 