Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective Chloe, fortunately, my daughter has decided to see a couselor, who I believe has also suggested, to her that she consider moving on, as it seems, he is not willing to deal with the situation rationally. She spent two hours there, and then went home to sleep due to exhaustion. I am hovering in the background, simply because, I know the minute I get involved, she may feel she needs to prove me wrong?

She feels the problem with the relationship, is that he has found her faults, and that her yelling and screaming is not acceptable, and that she has hurt him by doing this and she needs to own up to that? The reason he is hurting is because he sees how much she hates herself, and this is projecting her hate on him?

When she booked her appointment he said he would go with her and support her. Mmmm… Saturday, he left to go visit his friend?

She told me that she is going to make every effort to salvage her six year relationship, as they both love each other deeply? And that I should not worry as she has got it sorted out.

today I received a text message “I am getting to breaking point don’t worry, I am going to stay at a friends tomorrow night, . Pack a few things tonight.

i am just hoping she figures this out, before he takes her to the cleaners. I believe he has already started hiding all the assets.

it always boils down to finance, very sad