Dear Lindsey:

You and him made plans for today, Sunday. You texted him last and he didn’t return your text. If he doesn’t contact you today, after making plans with you, you got your answer right there- cannot depend on him for anything. Nothing to do after that. Don’t initiate another text today, don’t contact him. If he doesn’t contact you, don’t contact him anymore, not today, not tomorrow. Don’t suggest again to get together with him, and if he suggests that Monday or any day after, tell him it is not a good idea.

It is a shame because I know that you enjoyed his company and it could be a wonderful friendship (or more) for you if he was emotionally well enough, available, willing and able.

anita