Hi Jill,

Mike isn’t supportive.  His poor diet will cause all kinds of health problems, both mental and physical.  He needs to address his depression and anxiety.  He isn’t appreciating how hard you are working and why you might need leisure time at the weekends.  His sleep patterns need readjusting. He has no discipline. He isn’t actually that interested in living with you.  You are carrying him big time!  Perhaps it’s time you put him down and stop letting him sabotage any plans you make or try to make.

You may as well be living in your own place and give yourself some freedom to be yourself until you do know what you want out of life and what you expect from yourself.

Give serious consideration to Mark’s comments.

Peggy