Mornin’ Shelby.

Did you stick with your plan not to go the festival? Bit of a shame as it sounds an amazing event but I guess if you think it’ll bring you more pain than pleasure than why go.

Ha, it’s ok, we’re not offended you don’t believe us, we’ll just keep reminding you helpfully 🙂  The big thing is you are trying out different things and taking out other negative things in your life, i.e. your job. That’s pretty huge you know, especially for you. Have you told your Dad yet – how’d he take it?

I’m actually kinda happy the break-up will stick this time. Although I’d have liked it to work out for you I did feel sad that it was always you doing the running, making the effort, the only one to reach out and try again.  Can’t be good for your self-esteem that for sure, would make me feel pretty unwanted for anything other than a short good time, no strings please.  But hey, you’ve got a couple months yet before any enlightenment kicks in by my track record anyway. So please do carry on believing in his future epiphany, I remember that part well!

If you are digging into the house-sitting thing, I’m pretty sure you can look for free and don’t need to sign up until you find something to apply for – you sometimes get the first few free too. There’s always discount codes for sign-up kicking around for TrustedHouseSitters so don’t pay full price for that whereas MindMyHouse is only £16 for the year anyway as & when you find something.

I’m now in two minds about going away before SA – I really don’t want to go in the school holiday period but happy to put up with it if the weather here means we can’t get out & about on the bikes so much – but the forecast keeps changing it’s mind!! Honestly, dealing with uncertainty……who’d have it 😉

Kkasxo – been a while – you doing ok? Either rushed off your feet or else have you had a tough time with Mr A lately following the trauma anniversary, know you were struggling with emotions more than recently. Let us know how you are doing when you get a sec 🙂