Dear anita,

I was going to send a short text message, no way i could do it in person!

I was going to say something like:

I know you do not owe me any explanation, however the other day i saw you with a woman and i would like to know who she was, because when i saw with her a part of me realized i might want you more than what i thought i did and i would like to set my expectations accordingly to do not get hurt or anything.

Please let me know what do you think.

Lay