Hey Alexandria,

Infidelity is never something easy to go through. Some women forgive their spouses and can repair the relationship, whereas others don’t want to continue on due to the wound the affair caused. If there is still leftover hurt on your part, you should take a break from your boyfriend for a while to clear your head. You mentioned that you had an on/off again boyfriend, so you could either stay in the relationship or break up to avoid repeating that pattern. You also mentioned that your view of him changed when he had an affair with another woman. That explains it all. I hope this helps.