Lisa,

What is great about this website is that we can post about anything and the community is very supportive of the poster and can weigh in with some good wisdom.  In your previous post, you said that you are almost 50 years old.    As someone of middle age, I am puzzled on your interest about your cousin friend around this particular situation.  What do you plan to do with all the opinions you solicit here?  Are you going to relay all of views to your cousin friend?  I am curious and puzzled.

Mark