Dear Alexandria:

I don’t have any comments on this thread at this point but I want to post a few quotes from what you stated, your words (except for what I put in parentheses as well as the bold letter feature)  in your previous threads that may be helpful to you now:

July 25, 2017: “I’m going to start going to therapy to bring all my dysfunction to light, heal from my past and to heal from this heartbreak so I can have a healthy fulfilling relationship later on down the road”.

Oct 30-31, 2018: “I spent a year single and working on myself and one night a few months ago I went out with my friends one night. I found him (your current boyfriend), I found the person I want to grow with. He is very traditional and I feel like we have the same love language, these are things I find extremely important and what I think makes us compatible long term. We share the same values and communicate well…We came from similar backgrounds, divorced parents one of them on drugs- or alcohol- not able to take care of us very well and the other remarried soon”.

“I do think I am putting too much pressure on him (current boyfriend) in general expecting him to say the right things all the time and never upset me, so I will work on that“.

anita