Dear lloveshopping:

You started about seven threads and wrote very little in each, one sentence maybe.

In August you wrote a few threads, putting your writings there all together: “The level of ugliness that I’m on is hideous… I’m scared I might be a virgin for the rest of my life and never have sex… I’m scared I might never have a relationship… I want guys to accept me for who I am”.

You don’t want to be ugly, right? Let’s look at the painting on canvas thread you started not long ago: a few members responded to you but you didn’t get back to the thread and didn’t thank a single member for replying to you= this is an ugly behavior!

You don’t want to be ugly, well.. return to a thread you start- if any member answered it with good intent and tried to give you something helpful- and say: thank you!

In one thread I suggested you come back and let me know that you read my reply to you and you did just that- you responded and not in a hostile way- so there is beauty right there in you!

You can practice being beautiful right here,  on this thread. Don’t let it end the same way as the others, with you not coming back to it (or coming back for just one line).

I asked  you in the thread that you did return to with one line to tell me about your ugliness and you didn’t respond. Here is a way for you to express your beauty: express your thoughts and feelings. You mentioned painting on canvas on another thread- your thoughts and feelings are like the paints on canvas, they are colors that make the painting beautiful.

When you start threads with just one line it is like a drawing one grey line over the canvas with a pencil, no shapes, no colors.

Well.. paint this thread with shapes and colors: come back and show your beauty here. Tell me, tell us what you think, what you feel, type and keep typing and then submit.

anita