Tannhauser:

Peter was not an arsehole. I am not an arsehole, although there were times that I was and at times, well I almost am but I stop myself best I can. I will get better at it and I hope you aim at getting better at it as well.

First, make sure a person is an arsehole, don’t jump to that conclusion, pause and think before you react rudely.

And when you figure a person really is an arsehole, better come up with an original strong response that will deliver your message well and at the same time, not placing your own self in the arsehole category!

anita