Dear Cris:

I would say make sure that neither one of you takes unfair financial advantage of the other, be careful about loaning money to people who are financially irresponsible (incurring unnecessary debts, spending money on entertainment, let’s say, instead of paying back their debts, etc.)

Regarding the mixed messages you believe that you are getting from him post breakup- why not ask him, clearly and directly, to explain to you these messages?

anita