Dear Maria:

Maybe I misunderstood. When you wrote earlier: “we’d have pretty bad fight.. I’d blame him.. we had anther one of our arguments where I blamed him”- can you tell me what you meant by blaming him, what did you actually say to him?

That “pretty bad fight” you mentioned, can you describe it as in he said/ she said form, paraphrasing what he said, what you said, what he said back and add in parentheses comments such as he yelled, or .. said with a louder voice, or walked out the room or broke a glass and so forth?

anita