Dear Heartbrokengurl:

Welcome back!

I wouldn’t worry about “not feeling those butterfly feelings or feelings of excitement”- butterflies are  known for their short life span, so they are not a solid, lasting basis for a healthy, loving relationship.

To function better in this new relationship, to do your part in it for the purpose of it being the healthy, loving relationship I wish it is becoming, it may be helpful for you to slowly read your previous threads and take notes, the idea is to learn from previous experiences so to function better in life.

I hope to read more from you.

anita