Dear Jason:

How is your health now, your kidney problems?

I wonder if the “preferential treatment” you received from your parents, if that made you feel less-than.

Regarding your ex girlfriend: some women (and men) are fast paced. She had quite a few relationships before you and only a few weeks in between relationships before the two of you got together. She is now in a new relationship nine days after your breakup- it is consistent with her behavior before you met her.

See, if she was fast paced before she met you and after she met you, it means her being now in a new relationship is not about you, it is about her habitual behavior. Don’t you think?

anita