Lol “the universe is bugging”–love it.  That’s partly the reason I wanted to share my story, to meet others that have also met their twin flames and hear their experiences–so thank you!  Like I’ve mentioned, none of the friends I’ve spoken to about it really get it, or they think it’s an unhealthy fixation that I just need to get over.  If I could wave a magic wand and make the feelings go away I would…but, unfortunately, I can’t.

And to respond to what you said–there was a time that I was deeply felt that he was my twin flame, but I’m one of those people that constantly struggles between her head and her heart.  And I’ve felt so hurt (and embarrassed, in a way) by my feelings towards him that I’ve basically talked myself out of it.  But then I’ll have a dream, or hear a song, and fall into this reverie where I think about him and be swept up by the overwhelming feelings that he is my TF.  Or if I’m going through something painful, I’ll think about him, and the thought of him makes me feel better, somehow.

And yea, I can totally relate to the idea of a TF enhancing one’s spiritual calling.  I’ve definitely felt that’s been the case with me.  And it’s funny how during the few times we hung out together, I felt like my intuition grew to the level where I almost felt psychic.  Like I just knew certain things about him, to the point where he would ask me “how did you know that?”  It was kind of eerie.

And don’t even get me started on the 11:11 thing lol.  My birthday is on 11/11, and our birthdays are both in November.  So i think the signs are there–I’m just scared to admit them.  Because what i feel for him makes no sense, and I’m truly in a stage of my life where i’m tired of waiting on someone and just want to find someone who cares about me and doesn’t run away.

Any thoughts on false twin flames?