Dear Luke:

“everyone says to just accept it and  move on. So something bad happens, accept it and move on, then the next bad thing happens, accept it and move on, and on and on”-

– I suggest that you learn all you can learn from this relationship and break up, and then move on. When you learn from what happens, it is less likely to happen again because you can make better, more informed choices and life is less random, less a matter of luck.

When you learn from your experience,  you can plan and cause good things to happen to you. There is a term to it- being proactive.

anita