Dear Luke:

You wrote that during the marriage you were in the habit of “assuming that something would go wrong. Then when it did, at least felt a bit prepared for it.”, but ten, “I couldn’t have prepared for her coming out and then leaving me”-

– what are all the things that you assume would go wrong during your marriage, and did they all go wrong in real life?

I am asking for the purpose of perhaps learning from your experience, a suggestion I made in my last post to you. Answer if you want, it is okay if you don’t.

(I will be back to the computer in about 13 hours from now).

anita