Hi Joe,

Anita brought up a REALLY good point. If this is the case, you two probably aren’t a good match for each other and it might be better for you in the long run to find a woman who appreciates you just as you are and for the things that you do and who will trust you and not try to tell you what to do (because they will know you’re trustworthy). There are plenty of women out there like that and you would likely have a much better relationship with them rather than being in a relationship with someone who is sort of expecting you to be someone you’re not.

And also thank you for the compliment towards the members of this board!  I really like reading the responses people give here, too, for that reason. Everyone is really helpful.