I honestly didn’t think it classified as a conversation. I never ever lied to this girl about anything. At times, I was perhaps too honest. I wanted to be the opposite of what she told me the other guys were. And I would never put the guy who upset her over her like she apparently thinks.

Yeah, I’d say it sounds like you didn’t lie, or intentionally mislead her, by telling her you hadn’t talked to him in 2 months. At the very least, I’d consider it an unreasonable thing for her to get mad over, especially when she was overstepping a privacy boundary and looking through your phone, essentially spying on you, which you did not deserve given your efforts to prove you are trustworthy.

Honestly, it sounds to me like you should see this as good riddance. She has some growing up to do before she’s going to be able to be in a healthy relationship with anyone, and this probably would’ve been a problem with her for your entire relationship if you’d stayed together, with you constantly having to walk on eggshells and strictly remember everything you do in case she snoops and then asks about it. Is that really how you want to live?