Hi Vesper,

This is a classic dynamic as old as time. Guy and girl become friends. Guys and girl get so close one of two things will happen: They will either become Lovers or Siblings. You have been virtual siblings for so many years. He is your obvious mate, but you wouldn’t sleep with your brother, would you? And yet, he’s not your brother!

He is feeling exactly the same way. You two fight because since you can’t make passionate love, the passion comes out through fights!

Confess your feelings, one of you! Of course, the relationship will never be the same, but something different WOULD be preferable at this point.

Good Luck!

Inky