Dear cali sister:

Thank you for accepting my apology.

“Am I a terrible person for causing these parents to lose yet another child?”-

– I am rephrasing your question: am I a terrible person for allowing these terrible parents to experience the consequences of their 2.7 decades of actions against me?

My answer to your question and my re-phrasing of yours is NO.

It is time for cali sister to not continue the parental tradition of treating herself terribly. Time for cali sister to change the rules. This “new world” of yours is one where you make the rules.

anita