Dear PJ:

You are welcome. I understand, I think, how difficult it is for you now. Like I wrote, kids suffer most from aggression. In addition to no aggression, they need to be seen and heard, most important. So many children suffer from being invisible to their parents, they suffer in homes where their parents are married.

See them, listen to them, make sure they don’t observe aggression between their parents (or aggression turned against them)- and you will be doing an excellent job as a father, or continue to do an excellent job as a father.

anita