Thank you so much, Valera. You’re completely right. I would never speak to him again, but it’s just making me feel completely crazy. The main thing is that I found these messages etc in a phone that he left at my house of girls that he was messaging etc asking for sex etc. I confronted him about it after I kicked him out and just didn’t get a response. Think that’s the thing that’s driving me crazy most of all. I’m going to get on with writing this list! Thank you again 🙂