Hi faber castell,

Well, meeting people for the first time would give anyone anxiety LOL.

I say if you’re unsure, let the other person make the suggestion whether to meet again.

Then after the third date if you’re not feeling it, then dump them. It doesn’t matter how polite and nice they are.

And obviously if they are rude, gross, off, etc. get rid of them.

If you’re talking about people you’ve known a while… I would suggest thinking about people you KNOW you ALREADY like rather than wondering if random guys will fill that relationship role.

Best,

Inky