Dear Jess:

“By this point I already demonstrated that I’m a jealous person, which he seemed to not like.. Friday I got drunk, then we started talking about relationships.. I had more drink again and brought up the subject from last night and also got jealous about one of his friends… I know I f*** it up Friday and Saturday with my jealousy, but what I dot get is if this had always been a fling… Did he never think of something serious?”-

-Reads to me that he was very infatuated with you, that he liked you very much, was attracted to you and enjoyed your company until he experienced your jealousy, a jealousy that had no basis in reality, if I understand correctly, it is a jealousy that you experienced before you met him, with other men, with other people, something that is in you.

It must have been very unpleasant for him, so he didn’t want any more of it.

Do you want to describe this jealousy of yours, what is it about and how did you express it to him, what did you say and do when jealous, and when drunk and jealous?

anita