Dear Peck:

As you can see, a few women, including myself, found quite an interest in your plea and messaged you repeatedly. No men. But Inky got as close as one can get to the male perspective: “go out there and swagger!”-

(This is one of The Best of Inky’s, by the way and one of her very best).

Go out there and swagger- this is the best answer you can get in the whole wide world. Go out there and get together with a woman who you do turn on, if it is not your partner, then someone else.

True what inky says, women being attracted to “bald men. Yes, even small men. Yes, even older men. Yes, even the guy with the glasses”.

At 60+, might as well make it happen. No reason to rot in that aim of equanimity that you mentioned before. Go out there and swagger!

anita