dear Peggy you’ve got it wrong. I haven’t manifested anything. The situation is that I don’t have a job here at the moment (except some freelance project that aren’t enough to support me), and no real offer here in Croatia, so it’s quite possible I will be forced to find a job out of the country and move. I didn’t want to mention it right ahead so it doesn’t affect your answers. And it doesn’t have to be permanent or the end of the relationship…if he thinks it would be ok for someone to wait till his children are grown to have a complete relationship…him waiting for me while I work abroad for 6 months or a year shouldn’t be a problem…

But, who knows what will happen now…maybe I’ll find enough new freelance projects to stay here and work alone, maybe I’ll find a job here…and maybe I’ll have to leave to Ireland…

Regarding the intimacy problem…I see a huge leap now, seems he really needed time to relax. No, we didn’t resolve the problem but it seems it’s in the near future.