Dear Felix:

You wrote: “I just wanna forget about her but I can’t… I’m trying to help myself to stop thinking of her but there isn’t a single day that I don’t think of her”-

– you tried long and hard to not think of her and it didn’t work, so better stop trying to not think of her. Allow yourself to think of her without trying to stop. But at the same time, make a space in your brain to think about practical things regarding your life. You can allow yourself to think of her let’s say (examples), 10 minutes every hour, or think of her after 4 pm every day but not before. So you start thinking about her at 8 am, say to yourself: later, I will think of her at 4 pm.

You wrote: “I still keep hoping that someday she might accept me, that maybe I can contact her again in the future… maybe someday I can contact her and she might be the one”-

– decide then to contact her a year from now, choose a date and put the date in your calendar. From now until then think about and go about your life in practical ways so that you are more likely to be accepted by her when you do contact her. Take care of your health and get in good physical shape, do well in your studies, job/ career. Make yourself a good candidate for her.

What do you think about my suggestion?

anita