Dear Jennifer:

You wrote: “I’m not very good at being open and direct about my feelings and thoughts”.

You also wrote: “When we first met.. we rarely had disagreements…Around 8 months of dating.. I broke up with him after one of the biggest arguments me and him had”-

– to understand better, I ask:

1. What was that biggest argument about and who started it?

2. What were all the big arguments before the biggest about and who started them?

anita