Dear cali sister:

I looked for the post and found it on page 7, Oct 8. In that post I responded to what you shared right before, that you were angry that your sister chose a restaurant near your apartment building so soon after your NC for her birthday, angry that she showed her parents-in-law blown up photos of your parents, so soon after your NC. I quoted what you wrote earlier: “I am so sick of hearing that is what she needs. I need things too sometimes… Always having to deal with things for the sake of others… I say ‘oh no, I’m fine.’ I come off as cool and chill with it- when truly, I am hurting… it is my freaking turn to be protected“.

I then suggested that you “became even more clear and specific about those things that you need. Make a list maybe?”

Today, eight days after that post, for the purpose of elaborating, I ask you to elaborate on “it is my freaking turn to be protected”- tell me more what is behind this sentence, will you?

anita