Alot of growth has happened since I last wrote here. Our handling of conflict has become so much better and really shows me me he is growing up. He even says ” There is no point trying to win the argument cause if one loses you both lose” in other words the relationship is more important than trying beat each other to be right. He is now the champion and he has almost no fights lined up so far and basically he doesn’t have anything he is focused on or putting his energy into so his motivation is low which causes his general productivity in our life to be very low. So now because I’m at home all day and he also is at home alot more often we tend to be in eachothers spaces alot and do most things together which is now starting to bother him. But I try to make him understand that he needs to take time out for himself to get back to his ambitious happy state but he doesnt do it because he procrastinates and ends up throwing undeserving resentment towards me for his lack of independence.